{"id":1359,"date":"2016-08-20T11:42:43","date_gmt":"2016-08-20T11:42:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ruchigsaran.com\/?p=1359"},"modified":"2021-06-14T14:57:04","modified_gmt":"2021-06-14T14:57:04","slug":"a-letter-to-my-son","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ruchigsaran.com\/index.php\/2016\/08\/20\/a-letter-to-my-son\/","title":{"rendered":"A Letter to My Son"},"content":{"rendered":"[vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” column_margin=”default” column_direction=”default” column_direction_tablet=”default” column_direction_phone=”default” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” row_border_radius=”none” row_border_radius_applies=”bg” overlay_strength=”0.3″ gradient_direction=”left_to_right” shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column column_padding=”padding-3-percent” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”1\/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][nectar_highlighted_text color_type=”regular” style=”full_text”]\n

A letter I wrote to my son when he was starting college. As a parent, I understand the emotional rollercoaster this journey is for all involved. Just wanted to share a glimpse of mine. It is a memory I cherish. I hope you enjoy reading it.<\/h4>\n[\/nectar_highlighted_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” column_margin=”default” column_direction=”default” column_direction_tablet=”default” column_direction_phone=”default” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” row_border_radius=”none” row_border_radius_applies=”bg” overlay_strength=”0.3″ gradient_direction=”left_to_right” shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column column_padding=”padding-5-percent” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ background_image=”1102″ background_image_position=”center center” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”1\/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][nectar_highlighted_text color_type=”regular” style=”full_text”]\n

Dear Vedant,<\/h6>\n

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18 years ago, a lady doctor gave me the best gift of my life. Honestly, I did not know what to do with it, but I nurtured it, loved it, and gave my hundred percent to it. That gift was you, my dear.<\/h6>\n

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It is hard to believe how and where these past 18 years have flown by. I have enjoyed and cherished every moment with you. Yes, even when we argued and fought!<\/h6>\n

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Now it is time for you to spread your wings and fly<\/em>. Go, explore the world. It has a lot to give you but do not forget to give back too. Always remember the people who have raised you (No, not just me) but all who have been a part of your journey and have impacted your life in some small way or big. It could be the school guard, driver, Principal’s secretary or the School Director or a family member, or friend.<\/h6>\n

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We have always been very proud of your accomplishments. Be it taking the first baby steps or joining UC Berkeley.<\/h6>\n[\/nectar_highlighted_text][nectar_highlighted_text color_type=”regular” style=”full_text”]\n
A few gifts for you<\/h6>\n
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    Battery Charger to charge<\/em> you up when you are feeling low. It\u2019s just a phase and this too shall pass. It always does. There will be moments when you feel dejected and lost. During your weakest moment, you must be the strongest.<\/h6>\n<\/li>\n
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    Starbucks Gift card<\/em> – Eat well and stay healthy.<\/h6>\n<\/li>\n
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    Amazon Gift Card<\/em> – Spend wisely and manage your finances.<\/h6>\n<\/li>\n
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    Lego Key Chain<\/em> – Walk into the future with confidence but always carry a bit of your past with you.<\/h6>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n[\/nectar_highlighted_text][vc_row_inner equal_height=”yes” content_placement=”middle” disable_element=”yes” column_margin=”default” column_direction=”default” column_direction_tablet=”default” column_direction_phone=”default” text_align=”left”][vc_column_inner column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”1\/4″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][image_with_animation image_url=”1370″ animation=”Fade In” hover_animation=”none” alignment=”center” border_radius=”none” box_shadow=”none” image_loading=”default” max_width=”100%” max_width_mobile=”default”][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”1\/4″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][image_with_animation image_url=”1365″ animation=”Fade In” hover_animation=”none” alignment=”center” border_radius=”none” box_shadow=”none” image_loading=”default” max_width=”100%” max_width_mobile=”default”][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”1\/4″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][image_with_animation image_url=”1366″ animation=”Fade In” hover_animation=”none” alignment=”center” border_radius=”none” box_shadow=”none” image_loading=”default” max_width=”100%” max_width_mobile=”default”][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”1\/4″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][image_with_animation image_url=”1368″ animation=”Fade In” hover_animation=”none” alignment=”center” border_radius=”none” box_shadow=”none” image_loading=”default” max_width=”100%” max_width_mobile=”default”][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1623075741468{padding-bottom: 3% !important;}”]\n
    A reminder to<\/h6>\n
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      Be Humble<\/h6>\n<\/li>\n
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      Pay Homage to your Forefathers<\/h6>\n<\/li>\n
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      Respect Women<\/h6>\n<\/li>\n
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      Explore<\/h6>\n<\/li>\n
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      Make Mistakes and most of all<\/h6>\n<\/li>\n
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      Have Fun and be safe<\/h6>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n[\/vc_column_text][nectar_highlighted_text color_type=”regular” style=”full_text”]\n
      Last but not the least, I am always there for you<\/em> no matter what.<\/h6>\n
      We are proud of you!<\/h6>\n
      Love n blessings always,<\/h6>\n
      Mom<\/h6>\n
      August 20, 2016<\/h6>\n[\/nectar_highlighted_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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